Your Guide To Dressing Your Bridesmaids & 4 Tips for Choosing the Perfect Bridesmaid Dresses

You’re finally taken the plunge and set a date for your Vermont wedding. Congrats!  Now it’s time to think about all of those important details,... Read More

You’re finally taken the plunge and set a date for your Vermont wedding. Congrats! 

Now it’s time to think about all of those important details, like what your bridesmaids will wear. While this might seem like a daunting task, don’t worry – we’re here to help. 

4 TIPS FOR CHOOSING BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES

Aside from choosing your own wedding gown, one of the most important decisions a bride makes when planning her wedding is selecting the bridesmaids’ dresses. The dresses should complement the bride’s dress with the style and theme of the wedding, as well as flatter each of the bridesmaids’ figures. 

Here are the top four tips on how to choose the perfect bridesmaid dresses for your big day. 

1. Consider Your Overall Wedding Theme & Aesthetic

Before you shop for bridesmaids’ dresses, it’s important to take a step back and think about the overall theme and aesthetic of your wedding. 

For Vermont weddings, there are so many fresh looks that you can choose from. Do you want a formal affair with long gowns or a more relaxed atmosphere where shorter dresses would be more appropriate? 

Once you’ve decided on the general feel for your wedding, you can start narrowing down your choices of bridesmaid dresses. For example, if you’re planning a formal wedding, floor-length gowns in rich, luxurious fabrics would be a brilliant choice. If you’re going for a more relaxed vibe, flowy dresses in light fabrics might be a better fit. 

No matter, what the theme or aesthetic, make sure that you pick a dress that flatters your bridesmaids’ figures and complements your own wedding dress. 

2. Choose a Color Palette That You Love & Will Flatter Everyone

Now that you have the style of dress you may want for your bridesmaid, you may wonder how to choose bridesmaid dress colors? 

For the color palette, there are two things you’ll need to keep in mind: first, choose shades that coordinate well with your overall wedding color scheme; and second, pick hues that will complement the different skin tones of your bridesmaids. Choose a single color for all the dresses or mix and match different colors to create a more unique look. 

Regardless of what you decide, it’s important that the colors you choose complement each other and help to create a cohesive look for your wedding party, sacrificing none of the individual styles of your bridesmaids. 

3. Think About Your Bridesmaids’ Personal Style

As the bride, it’s important to consider the personal style of each of your bridesmaids when choosing their dresses. 

Again, choose bridesmaid dresses that complement each of your bridesmaids’ individual figures. You’ll want to avoid any styles that are too tight or revealing, as this will cause your maids to feel uncomfortable. Instead, go for a more forgiving silhouette that flatters each maid’s figure. 

A-line dresses are always a good choice, as they are flattering on most body types. If you’re unsure of what style to choose, ask your bridal salon for help. They’ll be more than happy to assist you in selecting the perfect dresses for your bridesmaids.

4. Don’t Forget the Undergarments

One of the most important things to consider when choosing bridesmaid dresses is the type of undergarments each woman needs. 

Some women may wear supportive bras and shapewear to ensure their dresses look flattering. Others may need nothing special, but ensuring everyone is comfortable and confident in their skin is essential. 

The last thing you want is your bridesmaids to pull at their dresses all night or feel self-conscious about their appearance. By taking the time to consider everyone’s needs, you can ensure that everyone looks and feels beautiful on your big day.

WHO PAYS FOR THE BRIDESMAID DRESSES?

Wedding planners often debate the question of who pays for the bridesmaid dresses. While some believe it’s the bride’s responsibility to cover the cost of her bridal party’s attire; others argue the bridesmaids should be responsible for their own dresses. 

On the one hand, some argue that the bride should not have to bear the financial burden of outfitting her bridesmaids. After all, the bride already has enough expenses to worry about, and she should not have to pay for something that her bridesmaids will only wear once.

Others argue it’s unfair to ask the bridesmaids to pay for their dresses when they’ve already agreed to be a part of the wedding party. 

Ultimately, it’s up to the bride and her bridal party to decide who will pay for the bridesmaid dresses. There’s no right or wrong answer, and a decision should be based on what works best for everyone involved.

WHAT HAPPENS IF A BRIDESMAID CAN’T AFFORD HER OUTFIT?

When it comes to wedding planning, there are a lot of factors to consider and budget for. One crucial detail is the cost of the bridal party’s attire. 

For many bridesmaids, being asked to take part in a friend or family member’s big day is an honor and an opportunity to show their support. However, with the cost of dresses often starting at around $100, some bridesmaids may find themselves in a difficult financial situation. 

In these cases, one solution is for the engaged couple to cover the cost of the dress. This way, everyone can enjoy the celebration without worrying about money. While it may require some adjustments to the overall budget, helping a bridal party member in this way is a thoughtful gesture that she will appreciate long after the wedding day.

Another solution? Having a frank conversation when you ask a girlfriend or family member to be a bridesmaid. Be clear about the fact that she’ll need to purchase her own bridesmaid gown. That way, she’ll have all the information she needs before saying “yes” to the position.


Whether you’re a bride-to-be or a wedding planner, we hope these simple tips have been helpful. 

The most important tip? Don’t forget to have fun with it! After all, choosing bridesmaid dresses is supposed to be a joyful experience. We can’t wait to see what you choose. Happy shopping!

If you’re ready to plan the special wedding of your dreams, contact us today and let us help you get started planning your big day in Vermont!

Read Next:

Top 5 Places for Your Bachelorette in Vermont (& How to Host the Best Bachelorette Party)

You’re finally taken the plunge and set a date for your Vermont wedding. Congrats!  Now it’s time to think about all of those important details,... Read More

Top 5 Places for Your Bachelorette in Vermont (& How to Host the Best Bachelorette Party)